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The year I stopped becoming and began being myself with precision
Hello my loves.
It’s my birthday today.
Every year on this day I do a Birthday Audit.
It started as a gentle ritual.
A moment to list lessons, reflect on emotions, write about growth and “becoming”.
It was soft.
Useful, but soft.
This year the audit changed.
Because I changed.
Instead of looking back through feelings, I looked through data.
Instead of interpreting the year, I measured it.
Instead of asking “What did I learn?” I asked “What actually happened?”
The result surprised me.
The story I thought I lived and the data of how I lived were not the same.
Where I am now
This year took me through extremes.


